The Art of Picking Up Women – 3 Things To Do When Approaching Women

Are you having success when it comes to approaching women? Or are always crashing and burning? There are 3 things you must do in order to move closer to being a master in the art of picking up women.



A lot of men have said that approaching is the most difficult step of picking up women. But then there are men who seem like approaching women takes no effort at all. I’m here to tell you 3 things that you must do in order for you to be more successful in your approach. First is to not over think. Second is to avoid pick up lines. Third is to tell her why you approached. In this article I will attempt to explain each one.

Do not over think. This is the most common mistakes that men make. When you want to approach a woman do you imagine what would happen afterwards? What if she has a boyfriend? What if she ignores me? Then you just walk away without approaching. Well guess what, those things might not have happened and you could be talking to the woman right now and asking her out, with her saying yes. Over thinking is always bad. It sets you up for failure. You will always imagine bad things would happen. Whereas if you just went ahead and did it, the success will be worth it.

Next is to avoid pick up lines. Come on, these lines just don’t work. Women will just think you are creepy or lack originality. Just a simply “Hi” or Hello” is great then go on from there. Always keep things simple. No need to make things complicated. And more importantly no need to make your opening line complicated. A simple opening will even benefit you as it women will think that you are confident in yourself that you don’t need no cheesy pick up lines. The art of picking up women does not include using pick up lines.

Finally, tell her why you are approaching. I cringe whenever I imagine myself walking up to a girl asking her “Who lies more, men or women?” My god, please kill me now. What’s wrong with telling her what you really think? Tell her that you find her cute and want to go out sometime. Tell her you want to have sex right now. No wait, we’re getting ahead of ourselves, that’s advanced stuff. But it is so much better if you just say what you think. You’d be surprised at the number of women who love men that are upfront and honest.

Now you know what to do whenever you want to approach a woman. Now I suggest going out there now and putting them to practice, I’m sure that you will be successful on your journey to becoming a master of the art of picking up women.